Will My Cat Miss Me On Vacation?

Does my cat miss me when I'm on vacation?

A vacation! The sun, the beach, the freedom from everyday life. You’ve earned it. But wait, what about your feline overlord back home? Will Mr. Fluffkins the cat miss you when you’re away on vacation, sipping margaritas by the seaside?

Well, the answer is a bit more complex than a simple “yes” or “no”. Cats, being the marvelously enigmatic creatures they are, can have different reactions based on their personality, their bond with you, and their past experiences.

With that said, will your cat miss you when you’re gone on vacation? Yes, your cat will likely notice your absence while you’re vacationing. However, whether it’s a sob-fest or secret party time depends on your feline’s personality. Keep their routine steady, and they should fare just fine.

Now, let’s explore the issue in more detail.

Understanding Cat Behavior

Cats are enigmatic creatures, known for their aloofness and fiercely independent nature. They are descendants of solitary hunters, after all. Their ancestors were solitary creatures that stalked their prey alone, only coming together for not-so-romantic rendezvous during mating season. So, it’s fair to say that the concept of ‘loneliness’ might not register for a cat in the same way it does for us social butterflies, aka humans.

Cats don’t have the same pack mentality as dogs. This leads some people to believe that cats couldn’t care less about their human’s absence. But domestication has stirred things up a bit. While your cat may not rely on you for hunting and defending territory, they have formed a certain degree of attachment to you.

The Bond between Cats and Their Owners

But here’s the catch, domestication has caused cats to adapt and form bonds with humans, which might not be as intense as a dog’s (sorry, cat lovers) but exist nonetheless. Your cat knows you. Not just because you’re the bringer of food and the opener of doors, but because they recognize your voice, your scent, and even your face to some extent. They may not come when you call (unless it’s dinner time), but that doesn’t mean they don’t acknowledge your presence in their lives.

Research has shown that cats can form secure and insecure attachments to their owners, similar to babies with their parents. A cat with a secure attachment might be better equipped to handle your absence, while one with an insecure attachment might face some distress.

Do Cats Miss Their Owners?

So, will your cat miss you? Maybe. Will they show it? That’s another story. Some cats might mope around, eat less, meow more, or change their sleeping patterns. Others might just take the opportunity to stretch out on that spot on the couch they’re not usually allowed on. Classic cat behavior, isn’t it?

Asking if cats miss their owners is a bit like asking if cats like water. Some do, some don’t, and some are utterly indifferent. Several studies suggest that cats do show behavioral changes when their owners are away. These can range from reduced appetite to changes in sleeping patterns and more vocalization (also known as incessant meowing). But is this evidence of them missing you, or simply them being inconvenienced by your absence?

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The answer seems to be heavily reliant on the individual cat’s personality and past experiences. A cat that has a secure attachment to its owner might show signs of distress when the owner is away. Other cats might just take this as an opportunity to throw a wild cat party. But there’s a distinct line between missing an owner and having separation anxiety, a condition more commonly associated with dogs but also seen in cats. Cats with separation anxiety show extreme signs of distress when their owners are away and can even become destructive.

One thing’s for sure, they will notice a change in their environment and routine. Cats are creatures of habit. They love their routine and your sudden disappearance could cause some confusion.

Winston the cat preparing to miss us while we're on vacation

Diary entry #657: I’ve just spotted the dreaded suitcase – my human thinks they can sneak off on another vacation, eh? The audacity! Who will I command at 3 am to open the door, just so I can sit and contemplate the meaning of life? Who will misinterpret my tail swishes, my purrs, my nuanced meows? Who will I gracefully ignore while they’re away? Sigh! #WhoWillServeMyMeals? #LonelyKitty #VacationBlues #MoreCuddlesPlease


Do Cats Get Lonely When Their Owners Go On Vacation?

Yes, cats can experience a form of ‘loneliness’ when their owners go on vacation. They notice changes in their routine and environment, which can result in behavior changes. However, as we’ve discussed previously, the extent of ‘loneliness’ varies from cat to cat, based on personality and their bond with you.

What about date night?

Do Cats Feel Abandoned When You Go Out?

Cats may feel a sense of abandonment when you’re away. However, short outings usually won’t cause much distress. Just remember that consistency and routine are their comfort zone.

How to Help Your Cat Cope When You’re Away

Are you planning to go on vacation and leave Mr. Whiskers behind? If you’re worried about your cat pining away at home, there are steps you can take to make your absence easier on them. Here are some tips:

  1. Conditioning to Absence: Gradually get your cat used to the idea of being alone. Start with short periods of absence and gradually increase the duration. This could be as simple as being in another room with the door closed for a period of time.
  2. Comfortable Environment: Make sure your cat has access to its favorite sleeping spots, as well as hideaways. These secure spaces can provide a sense of safety for cats, reducing anxiety.
  3. Feeding Schedule: Try to maintain your cat’s regular feeding schedule while you’re away. An automatic feeder can be very useful for this. Consistent feeding times provide structure and predictability, which cats appreciate.
  4. Hydration: Access to clean water is crucial. Consider a cat water fountain that keeps the water fresh and flowing, as some cats prefer moving water.
  5. Toys and Mental Stimulation: Provide plenty of toys that your cat enjoys. Puzzle feeders that dispense treats or kibble can keep a cat engaged. Some automated toys can mimic prey movements and keep your cat entertained in your absence.
  6. Smell: Leave something that smells like you, like a used T-shirt, in your cat’s favorite spot. Your scent can provide comfort and reassurance to your cat.
  7. Pet Sitters or Caretakers: If you’re going to be away for an extended period of time, consider arranging for a pet sitter or a trusted friend to check in on your cat. The familiar face (or a friendly new one) can help break up the loneliness, and they can also ensure your cat is eating and behaving normally.
  8. Professional Guidance: For cats that show severe signs of stress when you’re away, it might be worth consulting a veterinarian or a pet behaviorist. They can provide professional advice and may suggest specific interventions, like anxiety-reducing products or medications, if necessary.

These steps can help make your time away less stressful for your cat. Being that every cat is different, you might need to tailor these suggestions to suit your furry friend’s specific needs.


In the end, while cats might not pen melancholy poetry or binge on ice cream in your absence, it’s safe to say they do register your absence in their own, unique cat-like way. The depth of their “missing you” feelings, though, is subject to their individual temperament and relationship with you. So go, enjoy your vacation, and maybe bring back a fishy souvenir for the royal highness at home. They might not show it, but they’ll appreciate the gesture (or, more likely, the treat).

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